Being Married: Some thoughts about Marriage?
– Marriage is a Union of two human, a Male and a Female (biological gender). The structure of Marriage was ordained by God, not by any human civilization or culture.
– The union of Marriage is bound to have problems, because two humans (a male and a female – biological) with different Nature (biological and spiritual) and Nurture (family of origin, community, neighborhood, etc.) are coming together.
– No Marriage can or will survive (in true happiness) with both party making up rules as they go along, not following laid down rules and principles found in scripture (the Bible).
– The biggest obstacle in any Marriage surviving is PRIDE – when both or one of the party, chooses not to die to SELF or be vulnerable to each other, rather to want to stand on cultural norms or worldly principles (instead of willingly doing godly laid down principles).
….and so forth