Being Married: Hearing with Prejudices If I mention the word or name OBAMA – it would mean or engender different reactions from my many “diverse” group of friends. The same way in our various relationship, we have a pre-conceived idea about someone, and we often listen to that person based on those biases. Whether we […]

Being Married: Which one of the following is best in rebuilding TRUST in marriage? A: Forgive and Don’t dangle the offense over the offending spouse when angry or during every conflict B: Be Vulnerable and share everything with your spouse (passwords, communicate, etc.). Avoid secrets. C: Set objective practical goals and seek to meet them […]

Being Married: Submit vs. Obey? One of the most misunderstood or misinterpreted job description everywhere in the world and through history, is the role of Women – Submit or Obey and how each is interpreted? Submit: this is when one have an opinion and share it, but willingly relinquish/submit that opinion to another person’s opinion, […]

Being Married: Cleansing by the Word Eph. 5: 26 “…cleanse her with the washing of water by the Word” One of the most sacred duty of any spiritual head (or leader) – Church or the Family institution, is cleansing or washing those God has placed in our path to lead, not by physically cleaning them […]

Being Married: The Issue vs. The Person When couples conflict, many variables come into play, personality, emotion, past experiences, etc. and these variables could send the conflict on a totally different level, if not well dealt with. One huge variable in Conflict resolution is Separating The Person from the Issue – meaning, instead of attacking […]

Being Married: The Life of Nancy Reagan…Helpmeet This past week, one of the questions ask of me, was the meaning of women being a helpmeet. A young man seem to believe, it means his wife just basically submits to his leadership and her aspirations in life ends once she is married, of course the lady […]